"The road of life twists and turns, and no two directions are ever the same. Yet our lessons come from the journey, not the destination"
- Don Williams Jr.

Sunday, December 5, 2010

The Silence of Society

      In the novel One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest by Ken Kesey, the narrator of the story pretends to be deaf and dumb while in a psychiatric ward. While I read this, I thought how terrible it would be not to be able to speak in society today. However, it was then I realized all the things we can do without actually speaking to someone:

  • We can text on our cellphones instead of talking to people. Texting has become a convenient way of communicating with people all throughout the globe, and even my swim team coach texts the team when practice is cancelled or she has an important announcement. 
  • We can order things online instead of shopping for them in stores. From food to clothes, almost anything is available for purchase online today, and you can get it without having to talk to anyone.
  • We can take school courses online, instead of in the classroom. ITT Tech offers online college courses, and so does our high school (psychology, economics)
  • We can use social networking sites on the internet. Facebook, Twitter, and MySpace all allow us to stay in touch with friends on the internet, without talking.
  • We can get money from ATM machines instead of talking to a bank clerk.
  • We can buy songs on iTunes, instead of going to stores and having to communicate with cashiers and salespeople.
  • We can do college interviews online. Wake Forest University has a required interview in order to apply, and one option to fulfill this requirement is to answer a couple short answer questions online with a time limit per question.
  • We can meet our significant other online, instead of having to meet them and talk to them in person first (eHarmony, Match.com). 
      All of these examples show how much society today has diverged from verbal communication. We can do almost anything without talking to anyone, and this lack of communication has caused many people to become socially awkward in person. I believe we should use these new technological advances, but in moderation. Who knows what will happen if we rely too heavily on technology to avoid social interaction with others in the future?

2 comments:

  1. This was actually a little disturbing, I'm having some trouble processing this information. As an avid speaker (I know you can't tell judging by my performance in class discussions, but trust me) I firmly believe human communication is a vital healing tool and has the power to prevent or start conflict. To dumb that down to a text takes away any effort or intelligent design required for advanced discussion. Sigh, sometimes people upset me...also eHarmony is lame.

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  2. Cat, I agree with you that we need to maintain our social skills throughout the future. In the movie, Never Been Kissed, they discuss the ability a mask has on transforming a person into whoever they desire. I feel by not verbally communicating with others, like texting or blogging, we allow ourselves to hide behind a mask and reveal ourselves in a way we verbally wouldn't. I believe individuals need to gain confidence and release their true feelings verbally, rather than, hide behind a cell phone or computer. Dom, I agree with you. Sometimes people upset me.

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